𝟭𝟬 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 "𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸"

 𝟭𝟬 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 "𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸" 

1. More Is Not Better✅

Happiness is not about experiencing more of something.

It's about experiencing what you love in new and interesting ways.

2. Embrace Fear✅

You assume happiness is good, and fear is bad.

Fear is an indicator that you're doing something worthwhile. 

Change your story around fear. Bad feelings are not always bad.

3. Seek New Experiences✅

It's difficult to change your beliefs through thought alone.

Seek new and novel experiences that make new beliefs real to you.

4. Problems Are Pathways✅

You view problems as roadblocks to your success. Truth is, they're pathways.

"What stands in the way becomes the way."

- Marcus Aurelius

5. Your Past Does Not Define You✅

We believe the past is set in stone, but in reality, your perception of the past changes as you do. 

Change your future, change your past.

6. Tame Your Mind✅

An untamed mind is a minefield.

Impulsive sub-conscious thinking is disastrous in the long term.

Learn to let your conscious mind make decisions.

7. Avoid Fear with Routines✅

Habits and routine turn off your "fight or flight system" by making the unknown known.

This is why people with strong, healthy habits experience so much joy.

8. Emotional Intelligence✅

You can't control your emotions, but you can control your reaction to them.

Gain control of your life by being aware of your emotions.

9. Choose Your Thoughts✅

Recognize that social conditioning forms your thoughts. Reflect on your beliefs to figure out if they're your own. 

Let go of any thoughts that no longer serve you.

10. Validate Feelings, Not Idea's✅

Build stronger relationships by validating their feelings.

Everyone's feelings deserve to be felt, seen, and respected.

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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

 HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

I learnt something about HURRIED JUDGEMENT vs DELAYED JUDGEMENT weeks ago.

 I learnt something about HURRIED JUDGEMENT vs DELAYED JUDGEMENT weeks ago.

A little girl was holding two apples with both hands. Her mum came and asked her little daughter with a smile; "Baby,could you give your mum one of your two apples? The girl looked up at her mum for some seconds, then she suddenly took a quick bite on one apple & then quickly a bite on the other apple.

The mum was disappointed & the smile on her face disappeared. Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to her mum & said "Mummy,take this one.This is the sweeter one."

From the mum's HURRIED JUDGEMENT, the little girl is either selfish or greedy.

No matter who you are, how experienced you are & how knowledgeable you think you are, always DELAY JUDGEMENT; Give others the privilege to explain themselves. What you see may not be the reality.

Never conclude for others. Which is why we should never only focus on the surface & judge others without understanding them first. Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.

Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility. Those who apologize first after a fight or quarrel do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.

Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend. Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.

Those who take out time to chat with you, does not mean they are jobless or less busy, but they know the importance of keeping in touch. One day, all of us will get  separated  from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had.

Top 10 Time-Wasting Habits...

 Top 10 Time-Wasting Habits...

1. Trying to please everyone.

Strategies to overcome

• Learn to say no

• Prioritize your own needs

•Seek out supportive relationships

2. Overthinking

Strategies to overcome

• Write down your thoughts

• Practice mindfulness

•Use positive self-talk

3. Repeating the same mistakes

Strategies to overcome

• Stay organized 

• Seek feedback

• Reflect on the mistake

4. Complaining

Strategies to overcome

• Reframe your thoughts 

• Find ways to problem-solve

• Practice gratitude

5. Waiting for inspiration

Strategies to overcome

• Set specific goals

• Seek out new experiences

• Just take action

6. Holding grudges

Strategies to overcome

• Communicate honestly 

• Practice forgiveness

• Reflect on the situation

7. Focusing on the past

Strategies to overcome

• Set goals for the present and future

• Challenge negative thoughts 

• Reflect on the past in a positive light

8. Being indecisive

Strategies to overcome

• Seek out advice

• Take small steps

• Make a choice and move forward

9. Negative self-talk

Strategies to overcome

• Celebrate achievements

• Practice positive affirmations

• Identify negative thought patterns

10. Procrastinating on important tasks

Strategies to overcome

• Remove distractions

• Set deadlines

• View tasks as opportunities rather than burdens.

 

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE.

 HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE.

Advice from Grandma 

1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.

2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.

3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.

4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.

5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something's just to make you feel sad.

6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.

7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like reading , Learning, etc.

8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.

9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope. Never stop trying. Give it one more time. 

10. Be very #prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.

11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.❤

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6 TERRIBLE DECISIONS THAT YOU CAN EVER MAKE IN LIFE!

 6 TERRIBLE DECISIONS THAT YOU CAN EVER MAKE IN LIFE!

1. Giving up on your dreams: If you give up on what you truly wanted to achieve, you may end up living with regret and wondering what could have been.

2. Staying in a toxic relationship: Staying in a relationship that is emotionally or physically abusive can have long-lasting negative effects on your mental health and well-being.

3. Neglecting your health: Failing to take care of your physical and mental health can lead to chronic illnesses and other complications.

4. Burning bridges: Cutting off people from your life without properly addressing issues or attempting to resolve conflicts can ultimately lead to a sense of loneliness and isolation.

5. Not pursuing education or personal growth opportunities: Refusing to learn new things or develop new skills can limit your potential and hinder career growth.

6. Living beyond your means: Spending excessively and not managing finances wisely can lead to debt and financial instability, creating unnecessary stress and hardship.

Remember, every decision you make has the potential to impact your life in significant ways, so it's essential to carefully consider and evaluate your options before making a choice.

5 THINGS THAT CAN KILL YOUR DREAM

 5 THINGS THAT CAN KILL YOUR DREAM

1. Fear: Fear is one of the most significant obstacles that can stop people from pursuing their dreams. Fear of failure, fear of the unknown, fear of rejection, fear of what others might think - all these fears can hold you back and prevent you from taking risks or stepping out of your comfort zone.

2. Lack of focus: If you don't have a clear idea of what you want to achieve, it's difficult to work towards that goal. Without a specific target in mind, you might find yourself wandering aimlessly and lacking the drive to take action.

3. Negative self-talk: The way you talk to yourself can have a profound impact on your ability to pursue your dreams. If you're constantly telling yourself that you're not good enough, or that you'll never make it, you're likely to lose motivation and give up on your aspirations.

4. Lack of perseverance: Achieving your dreams often requires hard work, dedication, and perseverance. If you give up too easily when faced with setbacks or obstacles, you may struggle to make progress towards your goals.

5. Lack of support: Having a strong support system can make a big difference in your ability to achieve your dreams. Surrounding yourself with people who encourage and believe in you can give you the confidence and motivation to keep working towards your goals, even when things get tough.

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES

 ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES  

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.

 

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year.  You are not the pillar of your department.  If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue.  Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions.  Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't,  stay positive to your personal.

development.

4. Avoid office or work gossip. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites  your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses.  You will burn your fingers.  Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business.  Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money. Let it be deducted automatically from your payslip. 

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.  

10. Be loyal to yourself  and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and  your boss may finally dump you when he leaves. 

11. Retire early.  The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today.  By 40 to 50 be out. 

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when  any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching series on Zee world, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project. 

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too. 

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily. 

Hope this will help you look at life positively

𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 “𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞”

 𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 “𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐆𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞”

1. Window of opportunity

Fear makes us lose small opportunities. You must learn to run towards your fears.

Do the things that make you uncomfortable. Visit the places that scare you. Talk to people, even if you fear them. Make friends.

2. Nothing fails like success

The more you stop doing what took you up to the number one position, that is the moment you crumble.

Organizations that remain successful are humble, efficient, play faster, devoted, and add value to their clients.

3. Be a rock star at work

Be passionate about what you do. Work puts meaning into our lives.

Working hard makes you a gift to yourself and the organization. You will be happier and richer and live a fulfilling life.

4. Your days define your life

You create your future by what you do today. Nothing is small.

The smallest choices you make now have consequences.

5. Be a Lifetime Learner

A leader who reads profusely will encounter situations in which he may rely on the experience gained from a book to solve such problems.

Reading remains the best discipline anyone can cultivate.

6. Get some skin in the game

Albert Einstein describes insanity as doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting the same result.

You must learn to take risks in life to avoid staying in one position. Taking more risks in pursuing your dreams is rewarding.

7. Make time to think

“Five percent of the people think; ten percent of the people think they think; and the other eighty-five percent would rather die than think”

–Thomas A. Edison

8. Leadership begins on the extra mile

The greatness guide teaches that leadership and success begin with the extra mile.

Ordinary people do not spend time on the extra mile.

Who says you are ordinary?

9. Reference point

Ultimately, success is about consistency in what you do.

You should pick positive reference points that will help you see alternative ways of doing things.

10. Life Lessons

Be the eternal optimist — get more joy from life and see the best in every situation

Value people — put people first, respect your friends. They will never fail you.

Be Decisive!

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𝟭𝟬 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 "𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸"

 𝟭𝟬 𝗣𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗳𝘂𝗹 𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗕𝗼𝗼𝗸 "𝟭𝟬𝟭 𝗘𝘀𝘀𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆 𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗸" 

1. More Is Not Better✅

Happiness is not about experiencing more of something.

It's about experiencing what you love in new and interesting ways.

2. Embrace Fear✅

You assume happiness is good, and fear is bad.

Fear is an indicator that you're doing something worthwhile. 

Change your story around fear. Bad feelings are not always bad.

3. Seek New Experiences✅

It's difficult to change your beliefs through thought alone.

Seek new and novel experiences that make new beliefs real to you.

4. Problems Are Pathways✅

You view problems as roadblocks to your success. Truth is, they're pathways.

"What stands in the way becomes the way."

- Marcus Aurelius

5. Your Past Does Not Define You✅

We believe the past is set in stone, but in reality, your perception of the past changes as you do. 

Change your future, change your past.

6. Tame Your Mind✅

An untamed mind is a minefield.

Impulsive sub-conscious thinking is disastrous in the long term.

Learn to let your conscious mind make decisions.

7. Avoid Fear with Routines✅

Habits and routine turn off your "fight or flight system" by making the unknown known.

This is why people with strong, healthy habits experience so much joy.

8. Emotional Intelligence✅

You can't control your emotions, but you can control your reaction to them.

Gain control of your life by being aware of your emotions.

9. Choose Your Thoughts✅

Recognize that social conditioning forms your thoughts. Reflect on your beliefs to figure out if they're your own. 

Let go of any thoughts that no longer serve you.

10. Validate Feelings, Not Idea's✅

Build stronger relationships by validating their feelings.

Everyone's feelings deserve to be felt, seen, and respected.

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