10 things every man must learn from Thomas Shelby:

 10 things every man must learn from Thomas Shelby:

1. Loyalty: 

Thomas is fiercely loyal to his family and his gang. 

He'll do whatever it takes to protect them and keep them safe. 

As a man, it's important to be loyal to those you care about and stand up for them when necessary.

2. Confidence: 

Thomas exudes confidence in everything he does. 

Whether he's negotiating a deal or engaging in hand-to-hand combat, he's always cool, calm, and collected. 

As a man, it's crucial to have confidence in yourself and your abilities.

3. Emotional intelligence: 

Despite his tough exterior, Thomas has a deep understanding of human emotions

He knows how to read people & use their emotions to his advantage

As a man, it's important to develop emotional intelligence in order to navigate complex social situations

4. Discipline: 

Thomas is a man of discipline. 

He's able to control his emotions and stay focused on his goals. 

As a man, it's important to develop discipline in order to achieve success.

5. Strategic thinking: 

Thomas is known for his exceptional strategic thinking. 

He's always several steps ahead of his opponents and knows how to play the long game. 

As a man, it's essential to develop strategic thinking skills in order to succeed in life.

6. Leadership: 

Thomas is a natural leader. 

He commands respect from his peers and is able to rally his troops to achieve their goals. 

As a man, it's important to learn how to lead effectively and inspire those around you to achieve greatness.

7. Adaptability: 

Thomas is able to adapt to new situations and environments quickly.

He's comfortable in both high society and the seedy underbelly of Birmingham. 

As a man, it's important to be adaptable and comfortable in any situation.

8. Resourcefulness: 

Thomas is a master of resourcefulness. 

He's able to make the most out of any situation and use his limited resources to his advantage. 

As a man, it's important to be resourceful and learn how to make the most out of what you have.

9. Resilience: 

Thomas has been through some tough times, but he always manages to bounce back. 

He's a survivor and never gives up. 

As a man, it's important to develop resilience and learn how to bounce back from setbacks.

10.  Vision: 

Thomas has a clear vision for his future and knows exactly what he wants.

He's able to see the big picture and make decisions that will help him achieve his goals.

As a man, it's important to have a clear vision for your future and work towards it every day.

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 "Weak people revenge. 

Strong people forgive. 

Intelligent People Ignore."

-Albert Einstein

SEE HOW OVERTHINKING IS KILLING YOU..

 SEE HOW OVERTHINKING IS KILLING YOU...

Overthinking means to think too much about (something): to put too much time into thinking about or analyzing (something) in a way that is more harmful than helpful.

Overthinkers may have trouble distinguishing between the fear of making a mistake, which leads to overthinking to the point where they make no decision, and a deep feeling that something is wrong. 

Knowing if fear or intuition is guiding your behavior will help you get out of your head and take the next necessary steps.

SIGNS THAT YOU OVERTHINK

▶️Difficulty following along with and contributing to a conversation because you go over potential responses or statements time and again until the conversation has either ended or the window of opportunity for speaking was lost

▶️Continually comparing yourself to the people around you and how you measure up to them

▶️Focusing on worst-case scenarios either involving yourself or the ones you love

▶️Reliving past failures or mistakes over and over again and you're unable to move past them

▶️Worrying about future tasks and/or goals until they feel almost impossible to accomplish

▶️Reliving a past traumatic experience (such as abuse or the loss of a loved one) leaving you unable to cope with it

▶️An inability to slow down the racing of vague thoughts, worries or emotions

HOW TO OVERCOME OVERTHINKING

➡️Don't think of what can go wrong, but what can go right.

➡️Distract yourself into happiness. Meditate of positive outcome. 

➡️Stop waiting for perfection.

➡️Accept your best. Celebrate your little wins

➡️Know you are a work in progress,you are not above making mistake.

➡️Be grateful for what you have as you wait for what you are expecting

Stop overthinking and act now.

Don’t forget to follow 

Let's all be masters of our mouths so that we won't be slaves of our words.'

 Once upon a time an old man spread rumors that his neighbor was a thief.

As a result, the young man was arrested. Days later the young man was

proven innocent. After been released he sued the old man for wrongly

accusing him.

In court the old man told the Judge: 'They were just comments, didn't

harm anyone..'

The judge, before passing sentence on the case, told the old man: 'Write

all the things you said about him on a piece of paper. Cut them up and

on the way home, throw the pieces of paper out. Tomorrow, come back to

hear the sentence.'

The next day, the judge told the old man: 'Before receiving the

sentence, you will have to go out and gather all the pieces of paper

that you threw out yesterday.'

The old man said: 'I can't do that! The wind spread them and I won't

know where to find them.'

The judge then replied: 'The same way, simple comments may destroy the

honor of a man to such an extent that one is not able to fix it.

#Moral_of_the_story

"If you can't speak well of someone, rather don't say anything"

'Let's all be masters of our mouths so that we won't be slaves of our words.'

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𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎𝟎 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 "𝟏𝟎𝟏 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐇𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐀 𝐁𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄"

 𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎𝟎 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 "𝟏𝟎𝟏 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐄 𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐓𝐇𝐒 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐀 𝐁𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐑 𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐄"

1. Be humble; you don't know everything.

2. Lift weights often.

3. Take walks in nature.

4. Seek discomfort often.

5. Think progress, not perfection.

6. Harness your ego

7. Don't sell out for a quick buck.

8. If you can do it now, don't wait until tomorrow.

9. Do deep work daily.

10. Only expend energy on the controllable.

11. Laugh at yourself. Chill.

12. Stop doing things you don't like.

13. “Whenever you are offended, understand that you are complicit in taking offense.” — Epictetus

14. Find a hobby that has no financial goal.

15. Limit your inner circle.

16. Train yourself to view obstacles as opportunities.

17. Don't talk about what you're going to do. Talk about what you did.

18. Read books to learn, not to brag you read books.

19. Do something hard every day.

20. People are not worried about you. They're worried about themself. Take solace in that.

21. Think deeply before making a decision.

22. Get sunlight exposure daily.

23. “Associate with people who are likely to improve you. Welcome those who you are capable of improving.”

24. Invest in one piece of beautiful art and put it in your home.

25. Get a loving pet, and your joy will rise.

26. Set personal deadlines for increased productivity.

27. Brag on others, not on yourself.

28. Go to bed on time.

29. Don't take your phone to bed.

30. “Always say less than necessary.” — Robert Greene

31. Remember, "well done" is better than "well said".

32. Realize you can learn from everyone you meet.

33. Don't compare yourself to others.

34. Pray when things are bad. Pray when things are good.

35. Value your marriage more than your career.

36. Internalize the truth that hates won't heal you.

37. Read the classics. They're timeless for a reason.

38. Choose to be powerful, not pitiful.

39. Your temper is a liability, not an asset.

40. Self-affirmations are overrated. Generate evidence.

41. Pay it forward often.

42. Don't worry about the price of a book. Just buy it if you will read it.

43. To see wrong, and do nothing, is wrong.

44. Be a student until the day you die.

45. Work to owe no one anything.

46. Consider the cost before moving forward.

47. Be known as a giver, not a taker.

48. Every time you are blessed, try to be a blessing.

49. Value solitude

50. Lean into challenges.

51. Pursue experiences, not things.

52. Cut toxic people from your life.

53. Visualize success habitually.

54. Stop wasting energy trying to impress people on social with fakery.

55. Have a good "why" for everything you do. If you don't, stop doing it.

56. Don't try to beat others. Beat who you were yesterday.

57. Be strict with yourself and lenient with others.

58. Become a master of negotiation.

59. Read biographies of the greats that went before you. Study them.

60. Have kids. There is no greater joy.

61. Forgive, even if they don't deserve it. It's not for them. It's for you.

62. Spend time with older people.

63. There is no shortcut. Learn and get to work.

64. Build discipline, don't rely on motivation.

65. Don't shun cliches. Their wisdom is timeless.

66. Read to learn, don't read to read.

67. Read philosophy.

68. Determine your philosophy.

69. Fuel the habit bonfire.

70. Life in the present, forget the past.

71. Walk every day.

72. Tell the truth all the time.

73. No job is beneath you.

74. Make a habit of handwriting "thank-you" notes.

75. Memento Mori - think about your death. Let it change you positively.

76. Gain wealth for freedom, not status.

77. Always be the hardest worker in the room.

78. Never be the most successful person in the room.

79. Process over destination.

80. Never walk past trash and ignore it.

81. Play chess.

82. Talk to strangers. It will teach you a lot.

83. Don't dogmatize routines.

84. Learn to succeed in subpar conditions.

85. Practice the law of action, not attraction.

86. Fail often. Just don't quit.

87. When you fall, get up quickly.

88. Journal

89. Stop watching the news.

90. Audit your time every quarter. Where are the time vampires?

91. Don't be jealous of those ahead of you; learn from them.

92. Your character is more important than your bank account.

93. Say no (a lot).

94. Success is more than wealth.

95. Don't judge others.

96. "Do to others what you would have them do to you" - Jesus Christ

97. Wake up early.

98. Cut out alcohol.

99. Love your neighbor.

100. Live an interesting life.

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Top 6 lessons learned from the book- DO IT TODAY

 Top 6 lessons learned from the book- DO IT TODAY 

1. STOP LOOKING FOR SHORTCUT, AND DO THE WORK.

Building a business or career is hard. It requires you to do difficult, tedious, and unsatisfying tasks. If you want more clients or work, no one is going to hand it to you. You have to hustle. Do content marketing, one-on-one sales, network, or whatever method you use to grow your business.

And if you want to climb the corporate ladder, you have to form alliances, be strategic, outperform your targets, and be great at what you do.

Thats what you SHOULD do, right? Most of us already know these things. Or, you will find out about it. Theres no such thing as a secret to succeeding at work.

2. ELIMINATE. ELIMINATE. ELIMINATE

Elimination is a key strategy that I use for many aspects of my life. We accumulate so much unnecessary baggage throughout the years that we consistently need to eliminate. If you find yourself struggling to focus, try this strategy. Make your life so simple that its a breeze to live. And lets be honest here. Who wants to live a life thats impossible? Life is already hard enough. Dont make it harder.

3. WILLPOWER DOESNT WORK. SYSTEMS DO.

What you really need is a system for doing work. A lot of people shy away from routines, systems and frameworks because they want to have freedom. Im sorry to disappoint you: Freedom is your enemy. The fact is that, if you want to get things done, you need rules.

If you combine the right productivity tactics, you have a productivity system. The deadlines create urgency, accountability will create responsibility, working in intervals improves your focus, exercising will give you more energy, so does a healthy diet, and eliminating distractions will take away the temptations.

4. DISCONNECT FROM THE INTERNET.

And theres only one reason to do that: Too

much of anything is a bad thing. Even good

things. Too much exercise? You will get

overtrained.

Too much love? You will smother people. Too much work? You will burn out. Too much food? You will get fat. Too much water? You will die.

So why do you consume so much internet?

5. MANAGE YOUR ATTENTION

Focus determines the quality of your life. No

focus means no control of your attention.

And no control means frustration. We all know what frustration leads to. Start managing your attention. Not your time.

6. REST.

You recharge your phone when it runs out of

juice. You refill your gas tank when youre

running on empty. But sometimes, you

forget to do the same for your most

precious possession: Your body (and the

brain thats inside of it).

1. #doittoday

2. #motivation

3. #inspiration

4. #productivity

5. #selfimprovement

6. #successmindset

7. #goalsetting

8. #lifegoals

9. #time management

10. #personaldevelopment

11. #mindfulness

12. #positivevibes

13. #habitformation

14. #selfdiscipline

15. #achievement

16. #empowerment

17. #mentaltoughness

18. #focus

19. #gratitude

20. #mindsetshift

21. #action

22. #perseverance

23. #workethic

24. #hardworkpaysoff

25. #determination

26. #resilience 

27. #selfgrowth

28. #nevergiveup

29. #worksmart

30. #dreambig

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 8 lessons from the book Surrounded by Bad Bosses and Lazy Employees by Thomas Erikson:

1. When we're surrounded by bad bosses and lazy employees, it can be easy to start feeling helpless and frustrated. But the truth is, we have more power than we realize to influence the people and situations around us.

2. Communication is key when it comes to dealing with difficult coworkers and bosses. But it's not just about what we say - it's about how we say it and how we listen.

3. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining our own sanity and productivity in the face of challenging workplace dynamics. But it can be difficult to do, especially if we're used to putting others' needs before our own.

4. When we're dealing with bad bosses and lazy employees, it's important to remember that everyone has their own motivations and priorities. By understanding what makes them tick, we can more effectively communicate and work together.

5. One of the biggest challenges in dealing with difficult coworkers and bosses is managing our own emotions. But with practice, we can learn to stay calm and focused, even in the most frustrating situations.

6. When it comes to dealing with difficult people at work, there's no one-size-fits-all solution. But by experimenting with different approaches and strategies, we can find what works best for us.

7. Taking responsibility for our own happiness and success is key to thriving in any workplace, no matter how challenging. By focusing on what we can control and letting go of what we can't, we can create a more fulfilling and rewarding career.

8. At the end of the day, the key to dealing with difficult people at work is to stay true to ourselves and our values. By staying grounded in who we are and what we stand for, we can navigate even the toughest workplace dynamics with grace and resilience.

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𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 "𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐭 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞"

 𝐓𝐨𝐩 𝟏𝟎 𝐋𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤 "𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐒𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐭 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞"

1. Negotiation has new rules. It's not about bullying or beating the other side into submission.

Negotiation begins when the other side feels accepted and understood.

2. Listen intently to gather information and make the other side feel understood.

The more understood they feel, the more likely they will reveal important information.

3. Repeat the last critical 3 words the other side said, followed by a pause, to keep them talking.

A technique known as 'mirroring.'

4. Direct and assertive tones create defensiveness.

Keep your voice soft and slow or positive and playful.

5. Help the other side overcome their emotional obstacles by labeling them.

For example, "It seems you're unhappy with our proposal."

By giving their emotions a name, you call attention to them and make them feel validated.

6. Labelling negative emotions helps people calm down when angry.

They're less likely to continue acting on negative emotions once they are made aware of them. Always acknowledge the negative to diffuse it.

7. Saying 'no' makes people feel safe, secure, and in control.

Get them to say no by reframing your questions. "Do you have a few minutes to talk?" becomes "Is now a good time to talk?"

8. "That's right" creates breakthroughs.

"Yes" can be a smokescreen where the other side doesn't feel comfortable saying no. Summarize everything the other party has said to get a "that's right."

9. Anchor their emotions on their fears.

Make the other side aware of what they must lose if the deal falls through. By preparing them for a loss, they will likely work with you to avoid it.

10. Use "what" and "how" questions to give the other side the illusion of control.

They get them working on the problem while feeling like they are in charge.

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All 25 Key Learnings from book “25 Ways to Win with People” by John C. Maxwell:

 Book summary on Leadership 

All 25 Key Learnings from  book “25 Ways to Win with People” by John C. Maxwell:

1. Smile and create a positive atmosphere.

2. Greet people by their name to show respect.

3. Listen carefully and genuinely to understand people and their perspectives.

4. Focus on common interests and goals to create synergy.

5. Be sincere and honest in your communication.

6. Show appreciation regularly for contributions and accomplishments.

7. Find ways to serve people and meet their needs.

8. Empathize with others and show compassion.

9. Avoid negative assumptions and judgments.

10. Make people feel included and valued.

11. Build trust through consistency and reliability.

12. Give feedback constructively and positively.

13. Encourage and inspire others to be their best.

14. Offer solutions instead of complaints.

15. Be open to feedback and willing to learn from others.

16. Collaborate and find win-win solutions.

17. Be patient and tolerant with others' mistakes and imperfections.

18. Communicate clearly and professionally to avoid misunderstandings.

19. Gain the trust and respect of others by embracing diversity.

20. Foster a positive and supportive work environment.

21. Be adaptable and flexible to change.

22. Demonstrate competence and expertise.

23. Show confidence and self-assurance without arrogance.

24. Stay accountable for your actions and decisions.

25. Continuously invest in building and nurturing

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